My web site is devoted to medical and treatment information about this rare cancer. My blog is devoted to sharing what has been the more difficult part of the journey for me, the emotional and spiritual road I've traveled as a rare cancer survivor.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Back again!

Sorry it's been so long since I posted! I got really busy! We moved into a house that was built in 1917 20 years ago, and it's been an ongoing home improvement project since then...and we've even gotten to the point where the first rooms we redid are in need of redoing AGAIN in addition to the rooms we never tackled.

For whatever reason, I've made it my mission to have the whole house done at once with no more impending projects...so I've knocked out 4 walls of plaster and lathe and primed and painted the new drywall in the kitchen, removed the old wallpaper in our bathroom (we didn't know when we put it up you are supposed to use "sizing" first, so it took me three 8 hour days to get it down). I've since repainted and redecorated the bathroom, had the tub refinished, painted my living room and dining room, re-painted and redecorated my kid's room and tomorrow will start painting and staining our deck. I need to repaint and re-floor my office too as we knocked out and re-did a wall there that's now in need of priming and painting. I want to redo our gardens too. I also stained and finished a door and all of the woodwork for the kitchen, the new cabinets to be installed next week!

I've also been looking for another job as my agency hours dried up (good thing as I had the time for the home improvement stuff, though!) and have also retrieved my kids and all of their belonging from college for the summer. Road trips and loading and unloading truckloads of their things!

I did find a new job, something different for me, but something I've done before for short time years ago and loved. I will be working at an inpatient facility for troubled teens. Teens who are struggling with drugs and alcohol and behaviors that have had bad consequences. Most are admitted for a 90 day rehab. I think being in the cancer community for so long has made me truly appreciate the effect that emotions and emotional struggles have on our lives. I struggled greatly and made bad decisions as a teen and had horrible self-esteem then, so I feel I will be able to relate to these kids and hopefully help them. Kind of a nice change of pace from hospital ICUs and IMCUs.

I've also been taking a statistics class (just took the final) and applying to grad schools. I was recently accepted into a graduate program at Loyola University in Chicago to work on my graduate oncology certificate and plan to start full time on my master's degree as a clinical nurse specialist beginning next spring at Purdue University. I hope to work on both degrees simultaneously. Kind of fun, my daughter and I will hopefully be attending the same college next year! Maybe we'll be able to have lunch between classes!

So...that's my excuse for not posting in awhile...but it's great to be so forward thinking now, to be able to contemplate a future, even if I no longer take it for granted. On May 16th I will officially be 9 years cancer-free...the limbo of life after cancer has lessened.

3 comments:

Kelly said...

Reading your story reminds me of an author in a very similar situation. Alesia Shute is a childhood cancer survivor and wrote her story, and has dddicated her life to fighting this disease. Check out her website becaue the two of you might be able to help each other. www.everythingsokaybook.com

revision rhinoplasty beverly hills said...

This is a stupendous act on your part to carry on with your busy life in spite of the circumstance and that is the only way to a better life and living.

HappyTrails said...

Haven't dropped by in a few weeks - sorry we missed your 9 year anniversary. It is awesome that you are furthering your educational pursuits in an area where you can help those who are going through what you have. Keep up the good work!